- Your need for perfectionism pushes you to take responsibility for everything. If something ends badly, it will be your fault. In your mind there is no possibility of error. Do not be so hard. We also learn from our mistakes.
- You have become an altruistic person, one who gives himself to others, even though it makes you forget yourself.
- You have great empathy, which makes you feel the pain of others like yours. This is not always positive. You do not understand them only, you put yourself in their place.
Sometimes you make yourself responsible and you charge on their shoulders their own problems in an attempt to help.
It is not negative to reach out to anyone who needs it. However, it becomes so if we do not know how to let go.
Lamentably, it can turn against us. Too much giving can lead others to use you, manipulate you.
Emotional dependence, on the contrary, will mean that you will not be happy without another person by your side.
Let go, let go, be free … We have learned to support, care, protect. But, very often, we have to untie the knots.
Letting go will help you get away from your obsessions, and open your mind. In addition, this will promote a more flexible behavior.
Those knots that bring you nothing good and that make us unhappy, and that make us tired.