When you love someone who thinks too much all the time, you love a person with a mind that plays tricks on him. You like someone who can not fight his way of thinking. Who can not help but think too much.
When you love someone who thinks too much , you need to be confident in your relationship. And you have to give a lot. You must be one step ahead of the person, never let your head start playing tricks on you with self-doubt and hate. You do not have to just tell him you’re there for him / her, you have to prove it and do it. You must act, instead of just putting the words in his head.
You must be compassionate.
To understand when he / she has questions about your past or about last night. To understand when fear floods his mind for no reason. To understand when he / she thinks everything is terrible, meanwhile, you think everything is great.
He / she can not fight the way his brain is programmed to treat life. He / she can not fight the thoughts that push him / her until he / she needs to explode. He / she can not do anything about it.
You must show him empathy.
To show him that you will not judge him when he / she will ask you if you like him for the twentieth time in the day. To show him that you are not going anywhere when he / she tells you he / she is worried, or that he / she is afraid. You must show him that you will love him, even if he / she repeats himself, thinks too much and worries.
You must be able to communicate.
To not just answer with a word or phrase in your messages. You must be able to always tell how you feel when you feel it, instead of hiding it. Those who think too much will try to find meaning in everything you say and do, so much to tell the truth, even if it is difficult to do.
You must be able to talk about his frenzies.
To be able to tell him quietly, “Of course not it will not happen”, or “I promise you they did not think you were weird” or “Of course, my parents adore you”.
Those who think too much tend to analyze everything, but also to analyze the people with whom they are. Be prepared to have an answer for everything. And be prepared for sometimes difficult conversations (like all other relationships in the world).
Above all, you must be affectionate. Loving can be a challenge for someone who thinks too much, but are not all relationships challenging? Be yourself and let him know how much you love him. A person who over analyzes everything can sometimes make you crazy / crazy, but it will remain faithful to you for eternity.
And he / she will love you no matter how many weird habits you have or how much luggage you carry. He / she will love you not only because you support him, but also because you love him, no matter how many times he / she makes you absolutely crazy / crazy.