Often when it comes to finding a partner, we have a very long list of criteria and qualities that we want to find in a person, but in reality, there are only two things that matter when it comes to find love.
We do not need to be funny, or rich, or smart, or beautiful, none of that, deep down we just want to love someone and that he loves us in return.
And the person you should never let go does both. It is he who illuminates the room when you enter the room, who proudly tells everyone that you are his partner, praises you to his friends and can not help telling your friends how he is lucky. That sends you additional questions, so have an excuse to get in touch, then try to find a reason to see you sooner than planned because he can not wait anymore.
It’s the man who does not judge you for having spent your weekend watching shows and who offers to start watching with you.
It is the man who, after a bad night’s sleep, brings you remedies to sleep so that you can have a good night’s sleep. This is the kind of man who accepts what others have said you have as flaws and who rather likes them as your unique traits.
It is the man who accepts the good and the bad and does not try to change you because you would not be without them. It’s the man who inspires you to become the best version of yourself and makes you pursue your dreams because you know, whether you succeed or not, he will always think you are amazing.
It is the man who will listen to your smallest problems and complaints with an open mind, accepting that you are human, who will help you at the right time and who will make fun of you when you need it. Who will remember what you have forgotten, say and notice small details, such as this ring that you thought you would never find, and which is on your finger again.
It is the man who will tell you his thoughts and secrets because he trusts you. He will listen when you speak and follow the advice you give him, not because he loves you, but because he appreciates your opinion and your judgment.
The man who just wants you to be happy and safe. Who always knows where you are in a busy and crowded room and even if you are surrounded by friends, he always has an eye on you to make sure you are well.
It’s the man who says what he thinks, he’s always there for you and would go to the end of the world for you if you needed it and he’s sincere when you ask him to call him if you need to help or if you have problems.
This is the man who will drop his buddies so that you come home safely, not because he expects something else but because he really cares.
It is the man who, in doing all this, makes you think that it is a dream and that you do not deserve it. It is the man who does all these things because he is in love with you. This is the kind of man you should never let go.