People always say that you can not really explain why you feel things for someone. Why we have more feelings with some people than others or why we suddenly feel connected to a stranger. I feel that life brings us closer to some people because they are the people we need in our lives right now. It is these people who will teach us important lessons about life or about ourselves.
There is a reason why your heart is attracted to a specific person and why you relate to some people more than others. When I look back, all the people who counted for me taught me something valuable or played a major role in my life. And most of these people were temporary because their duty was to show me a different way and then to free myself.
Sometimes the stage of your life determines the kind of people you attract and I think you are getting the people you need at the right time. You get the answers you are looking for through these people. You are enlightened by getting closer to people who bring out the best in you. Life helps you when you struggle by getting closer to those who are able to get you out of your darkness.
It’s just that sometimes we try to turn these temporary people into people forever, but that’s not their role. They are not destined to remain in our lives forever. They have been called to be there for us for a short period of time. They have been called to be in our lives so that we may be better for those who are destined to stay forever.
The problem is that we become frustrated when these people leave because we can not let go. We do not understand why someone who has healed us would move away from our life, but if you look at it from another point of view, that if these people extend their stay, their beauty will disappear, their love will die, their story will not be more inspiring, they will become a burden that we are not supposed to bear, so everything will start to make sense.
The essence of letting go is belief. The belief that this story is better left as it is. It is better not to try to change the course of history. Maybe the rewrite would ruin her. Maybe changing it would not give you a happy ending. Maybe these people are angels sent to you to teach you a lesson or heal you or make you better and when their time is up, they fly away. They are destined to arrive in someone else’s life.
Maybe these people are also teaching you to let go, to detach you, and to realize the end of someone’s role in your story.