Maintaining good harmony within a couple is often much easier said than done. Whether things are going well or badly between you and your other half, you will inevitably be exposed to all the advice on the subject from as many of your loved ones as the many magazines at your fingertips.
Never go to bed angry.
In truth, taking the night to think and letting the dust fall may be much more beneficial. Go to bed if you feel that you do not have the energy to deal with the problem right away. You will be in a better state of mind to settle your dispute calm the next morning.
Marriage changes people.
Marriage will not change the person with whom you live. If you are having trouble coping with some of your spouse’s traits, do not expect the marriage to suddenly turn him into the Prince Charming you’ve always dreamed of. Instead, ask yourself whether you are really able to ignore these details. If so, everything will be fine!
Love heals everything.
There is no doubt that the person we love can play an important role when it comes to healing the wounds of the past. But love can not solve everything either. Even as sometimes, unwittingly, our good half can end up turning the iron in the wound. The best way to do this is to identify your problems and their causes and ask your spouse to do the same. This will prevent your best intentions from turning against you.
Men and women have different roles to play.
This myth can be particularly mean, because it limits the individual in his vision of himself and the other. We live in a time when stereotypes are no longer alive. The woman can also perform the tasks previously reserved for the man, and vice versa. To ignore this fact is to activate a time bomb and let frustration and anger settle in the heart of your relationship.
If you have been together for some time, marriage is inevitably the next step.
Asking your marriage partner simply because you have been together for a long time is strongly discouraged. The present and the future matter above all. What is the state of your relationship right now? Where do you see yourself in a few years? Do you still see yourself alongside the same person?
No relationship can survive adultery.
An adventure of a night does not necessarily mean the end of a couple. People arguing that they could never forgive adultery have usually never been in such a situation. Of course, the healing process can be long and difficult, but many couples end up getting through, and even out of stronger ones.
Your partner should know at all times what you want and how you feel.
Your relationship is foolproof now that you are married.
You are not immune to a fight or trouble of any kind simply because you passed the ring on your finger. All relationships are vulnerable and need focus from time to time. Your couple needs you to show commitment and enough time.