Sometimes and as in almost all families, relationships between sisters can sometimes be complicated, even passionate, or conflictual. However, when you are the oldest of the siblings and you have a little sister, very often the relationship that is created little by little is fusional. Inevitably, your little sister, by her very existence, pushes you to give the best of yourself, to lead by example, and to take care of her, as she knows how to take care of you, because you are forever his first friend.
1 – It makes you want to surpass yourself and be a better person
For your little sister to grow up in the best conditions, you certainly want to inspire respect and trust. So, unconsciously, it pushes you to become someone better, to be the best example on which your little sister can be inspired.
2 – You were his first friend, and this link is impossible to break
Since she was born, you have been the first person to play with her. While she did not know anyone outside of your family, you inevitably become her first friend in her life. And when friendship is born so early, it becomes stronger over the years and becomes more and more impossible to break.
3 – It gives you a sense of responsibility
When it comes to your little sister, you become unconsciously protective, like a second mom. Over the years, this growing maternal instinct will make you irretrievably more mature.
4 – It will keep you forever young
Even if she has made you more mature, your little sister will always be there to remind you that you were children together and that you spend your time having fun. So, even as you grow up, your little sister will always connect you to your youth.
5 – Your longtime friends have known her for as long as you, and love her too
Even though she does not have any personal friends yet, she has already met your friends. Therefore, the latter who met her while she was still small, will be all the more affectionate with her, as if it was theirs.
6 – She supports you in good times and bad times
Like anyone, she will not agree with you all the time. But in any case, you can count on her to support you whatever decision you make. And that, that reassures!
7 – It helps you make the right decision, even if it can be risky
She may not have as much experience and experience as you, but her innocence could help you make the right decision, no matter how risky. Indeed, she has not made many mistakes in her life, unlike you, and so has not yet this apprehension of taking a “bad” decision. It will then push you to take your destiny in your hands.
8 – Distance will never be a problem between you
Growing up, you may be moving further and further away. And even if you prefer to stay close to her a thousand times, the distance has no impact on your relationship. When you end up, it’s as if you had left the day before.
9 – You have become a good counselor, understanding towards others
Your little sister will often come to you in search of good advice. Thus, you are preparing precisely to answer his doubts and his questions. Over time, you will become a very good counselor, and this can also serve your loved ones.
10 – Your little sister, despite the passing years, will always need you
Like almost every person, you have this desire to be useful for others, and especially for your little sister. This feeling does not leave you insensitive and you feel happy to be able to help it. Your little sister will always need you, and you will be grateful.
11 – It’s a constant in your life that knows many upheavals
Finally, as you continue to flourish, you are preparing, in your life, to experience many upheavals. Education, work, married life, marriage, etc. … But despite all these changes, there is something that will never change, this is the special relationship you have with your little sister. An eternal story!