Despite what women may think, the real reason a man does not run after a woman is simply that she does not care enough about it. He is not shy. You do not intimidate him.
A man has a strong desire to be the initiator of relationships. It’s part of his manhood. He wants to take up the challenge.
Often a man likes to run after a woman. When he wants something, he pursues it. If a man you love does not make love to you, it means he is not interested in you.
Men can find endless excuses for why they do not run after a woman. They will tell him anything, and will lie to him even more than once, so as not to hurt her or to let her know that they are just not interested. A man will say that he is busy, that he is overworked, that he has other things planned simply to not give him much attention.
He is charming, has a hypnotic smile that melts you.
It opens doors and you have even had several appointments. But, what about all the confused messages that deceive you completely? What about every time you wonder if you’ve done anything wrong to upset him or make him lose interest in you?
Do not be the woman who lets a man play with his mind, his feelings, or even his body. A woman should be confident enough and self-confident, and should know her self-esteem and not waste time waiting for a man who does not want to court her.
The idea of letting a man go to court may seem old-fashioned, but think about this: A man will show you who he is by his behavior at your appointments. The way he communicates with you, and tries to impress you.
A real man will court you every day.
A real man will motivate you to be the best version possible, and he will admire you for all your faults. He will not say that he accepts these faults for use against you when he gets angry or frustrated, a real man will respect you no matter what. A real man will lead you closer to your goals because he wants you to succeed, and he wants your happiness. A real man will not play with your emotions like a toy, and he will not call you only when it suits him. If he really cares about you, it will take time for you even if he does not have much.
You should be with a man who shows you he cares about you, a man who will not make you confused, you should be with a man who sees you as a “priority”. Let me tell you right now that you do not deserve to “talk” to someone. You do not deserve to submit to being a “thing” with someone. You deserve a pure love for each other.
Being alone can sometimes be difficult, but loving someone who is not interested or showing interest in you can be even more painful. Time will follow its course. And meanwhile, while you wait for him, love yourself so fiercely that only a real man would be brave enough to court you.
As a woman, it is imperative to approach each new situation with an open heart and a clean slate. That said, it’s also imperative that you do not let your heart run wild until you know if a man is really and sincerely interested in you.