Unfortunately all our relationships do not happen at best, often there can be differences between two people and to this can be added a routine. We also have our bearings and our experiences that play an important role in our life as a couple. That’s why we are offering you this article today, which we hope will help you in your current or future relationship.
Here are 9 important lessons that relationships can teach us:
1. If you want a relationship, you will have to defend what you want.
2. The wait does not always change the result.
If you wait for someone to finally realize how amazing you are, you are probably wasting your time. People quickly know whether or not they want a relationship with someone and will not wait for someone they really care about without at least an explanation or clarity.
3. You do not always know why a relationship ends.
Almost all relationships end without a specific reason. You may never know why things have ended or why they have disappeared, many questions will remain unanswered.
4. It’s not because someone keeps harassing you that he wants to stay.
Some people are spontaneous and will do things without really thinking about the future. Sometimes they are just curious or rather interested.
5. If someone loves you enough, he will say it or show it.
You will not have to ask and wait for things to happen. Men and women know how to conquer someone with whom they really want to be.
6. Do not let your emotions blind you.
Do not let your feelings stop you from seeing how someone is treating you. If his actions are not consistent with his words, then you should accept the fact that he may not be invested with you.
7. You can not force something just because you want it now.
Even if you are the most patient and understanding person in the world, if the feelings are not reciprocal and you are not on the same page, you can not force a relationship just because you want.
8. Asking questions early could prevent you from hurting yourself.
If you do not ask important questions like what the other person really is looking for and how many other people they are talking about, you could live in your own fantasy. You may be looking for a relationship and the other person just want to “have fun” or “go out”. It’s always smart to know where you are.
9. Sometimes you like the challenge, not the person.
Sometimes it’s our ego telling us that we have to get what we want. You need to determine if you are stuck in this situation because you like the person or if you are addicted to the thrill of pursuit.